Sexual aid system

Abstract

A sexual aid device formed of a substantially U-shaped, member having a proximal end adapted for engagement within the vagina of a user distal end positioned to oppose the proximal end in a biased engagement with intra vaginal and external sexually sensitive surfaces of the user's body. A skeletal member running axially within said U-shaped member may be employed to vary the force of the biased engagement and reshape the U-shaped member. A projecting elongated member adjacent to the distal end of the U-shaped member is engageable by the user or body contact with a second user to impart force to the U-shaped member for sexual stimulation.

Claims

1. A sexual aid apparatus, comprising: a substantially U-shaped, member having a proximal end and distal end; and said proximal end positioned to oppose said distal end at a distance therefrom, said distance defined by a gap; said proximal end and said distal end of said U-shaped member resisting movement away from each other, to positions widening said gap thereby resulting in a biased engagement of said proximal end and distal end to a body of a first user; a skeletal member running axially within said U-shaped member; said skeletal member component providing means for adjusting a force of said biased engagement to said body of said first user; a stimulation component at or adjacent to said distal end; wherein said sexual aid is engageable to said body of said first user by said force of said biased engagement of said proximal end against an internal structure of the body of first said user, and said biased engagement of said distal end against an exterior surface of said body of said first user, when said U-shaped member is positioned in an as-used position with said internal structure and said exterior surface within said gap; said stimulation component with said sexual aid in said as-used position engageable with a hand contact therewith, by either said first user or said second user; said stimulation component with said sexual aid in said as-used position being engageable in an internal contact through an orifice of a body of said second user, and movement of said stimulation component imparted thereto from either said hand contact or said internal contact, thereby communicating a reciprical movement of said U-shaped member in said biased engagement.

2. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 1 additionally comprising: said skeletal member formed of one or a combination of skeletal materials, from a group of skeletal materials including aluminum, stainless steel, fiberglass, and resilient plastic material having a durometer higher than that of said member.

3. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 1 additionally comprising: said skeletal member formed of malleable material, said malleable material bendable for a reshaping of said U-shaped member.

4. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 1 additionally comprising: a substantially hook shaped undersurface adjacent at said proximal end; and said undersurface providing means for supporting said proximal end upon an underlying ledge positioned over a pubic bone of said first user with said U-shaped member positioned in said as-used position.

5. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 2 additionally comprising: a substantially hook shaped undersurface adjacent at said proximal end; and said undersurface providing means for supporting said proximal end upon an underlying ledge positioned over a pubic bone of said first user with said U-shaped member positioned in said as-used position.

6. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 3 additionally comprising: a substantially hook shaped undersurface adjacent at said proximal end; and said undersurface providing means for supporting said proximal end upon an underlying ledge positioned over a pubic bone of said first user with said U-shaped member positioned in said as-used position.

7. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 1 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

8. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 2 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

9. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 3 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

10. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 4 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

11. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 5 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

12. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 6 wherein said means for removable engagement at or adjacent to said distal end, comprises: an elongated member extending from said U-shaped member from a position at or adjacent to said distal end; said stimulation component having an aperture communicating with a receiving cavity, said receiving cavity sized for receiving said elongated member in a removable frictional engagement thereto.

13. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 7 additionally comprising: said elongated member shaped to engage in a registered engagement of said receiving cavity of said stimulation component to said elongated member; and said registered engagement providing a positioning of said stimulation component or its tip, at a predetermined angle relative to an axis of said elongated member.

14. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 8 additionally comprising: said elongated member shaped to engage in a registered engagement of said receiving cavity of said stimulation component to said elongated member; and said registered engagement providing a positioning of said stimulation component or its tip, at a predetermined angle relative to an axis of said elongated member.

15. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 9 additionally comprising: said elongated member shaped to engage in a registered engagement of said receiving cavity of said stimulation component to said elongated member; and said registered engagement providing a positioning of said stimulation component or its tip, at a predetermined angle relative to an axis of said elongated member.

16. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 10 additionally comprising: said elongated member shaped to engage in a registered engagement of said receiving cavity of said stimulation component to said elongated member; and said registered engagement providing a positioning of said stimulation component or its tip, at a predetermined angle relative to an axis of said elongated member.

17. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 11 additionally comprising: said elongated member shaped to engage in a registered engagement of said receiving cavity of said stimulation component to said elongated member; and said registered engagement providing a positioning of said stimulation component or its tip, at a predetermined angle relative to an axis of said elongated member.

18. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 15 additionally comprising: said skeletal member formed of a continuous length of said skeletal material extending from a first point positioned along the axis of said elongated member to a second point proximate to said proximal end.

19. The sexual aid apparatus of claim 17 additionally comprising: said skeletal member formed of a continuous length of said skeletal material extending from a first point positioned along the axis of said elongated member to a second point proximate to said proximal end.

20. A sexual aid kit having a sexual aid apparatus comprising: a substantially U-shaped member having a proximal end and distal end, said proximal end positioned to oppose said distal end at a distance therefrom, said distance defining a gap; said proximal end and said distal end of said U-shaped member resisting movement away from each other which increase said gap thereby forming a biased engagement of said proximal end and distal end to a body of a user; a skeletal member formed of malleable material bendable to provide a means for reshaping said U-shaped member running axially within said U-shaped member; said skeletal member component providing means for adjusting a force of said biased engagement to said body of said user; a stimulation component removably engageable at or adjacent to said distal end; and said stimulation component being one of a kit of elongated phallic shaped member, said kit including: a plurality of said stimulation components of different lengths, exterior configurations, circumferences and shapes; and whereby a partner or said user may choose and engage any one of said plurality of said stimulation components to said U-shaped member.

21. A sexual aid apparatus, comprising: a substantially U-shaped, member having a proximal end and distal end; and said proximal end positioned to oppose said distal end at a distance therefrom, said distance defined by a gap; said proximal end and said distal end of said U-shaped member resisting movement away from each other, to positions widening said gap thereby resulting in a biased engagement of said proximal end and distal end to a body of a first user; said u-shaped component being malleable to allow bending to adjust said gap to thereby provide and adjustment to a force of said biased engagement to said body of said first user; a stimulation component engaged at or adjacent to said distal end; wherein said sexual aid is engageable to said body of said first user by said force of said biased engagement of said proximal end against an internal structure of the body of first said user, and said biased engagement of said distal end against an exterior surface of said body of said first user, when said U-shaped member is positioned in an as-used position with said internal structure and said exterior surface within said gap; said stimulation component with said sexual aid in said as-used position engageable with a hand contact therewith, by either said first user or said second user; said stimulation component with said sexual aid in said as-used position being engageable in an internal contact through an orifice of a body of said second user, and movement of said stimulation component imparted thereto from either said hand contact or said internal contact, thereby communicating a reciprocal movement of said U-shaped member in said biased engagement.

Description

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF DRAWING FIGURES

(1) The accompanying drawings, which are incorporated herein and form a part of the specification, illustrate some, but not the only or exclusive, examples of embodiments and/or features. It is intended that the embodiments and figures disclosed herein are to be considered illustrative rather than limiting. In the drawings:

(2) FIG. 1 shows a side view of one mode of the sexual aid device depicting the U-shaped member having an engageable projecting member adjacent to a distal end.

(3) FIG. 2 is an overhead view of the device of FIG. 1 showing a larger body diameter of the U-shaped member at a proximal end and a projecting ridge from the exterior surface.

(4) FIG. 3 depicts a mode of the device formed as a unitary structure without a projecting member at the distal end.

(5) FIG. 4 shows a slice through the U-shaped member and a skeletal component running axially a distance through the U-shaped member.

(6) FIG. 5 depicts a user positionable skeletal member for coaxial engagement within the U-shaped member having bendable joints and an engagement for a projecting member.

(7) FIG. 6 shows the ratchet or clutch formed at the bendable points along the structure of FIG. 5.

(8) FIG. 7 shows the device of FIG. 1 having the coaxial skeletal member of FIG. 5 therein in an expanded position, and a removably engageable projecting member at the distal end.

(9) FIG. 8 depicts the device as in FIG. 7 having been moved to a compressed position by bending of bendable points of the skeletal member.

(10) FIG. 9 depicts the device engaged with a female wearer having the proximal end in contact with the G-spot area and the distal end in contact with the clitoral area.

(11) FIG. 10 shows the simplest mode of the disclosed device wherein the elongated member extends from the distal end of the U-shaped member in a unitary structure.

(12) FIG. 11 shows a view of yet another mode of the device providing a means for removable engagement of an additional stimulation component to the elongated member engaged to the distal end of the U-shaped member, for communicating sexual stimulation to the users partner. The removably engageable stimulation component includes a receiving cavity for cooperatively receiving the elongated member extending from the distal end of the U-shaped member in a registered engagement.

(13) FIG. 11a shows a rear view of the mode of the device of FIG. 11 depicting the girth transition from the lower portion of the U-shaped member to a substantially wider body portion adjacent the proximal end.

(14) FIG. 12 shows a rear view of the removably engageable stimulation component showing the receiving cavity providing means for registered engagement with the elongated member.

(15) FIG. 13 shows a side view of the mode of the device of FIG. 11 showing the internal skeletal member formed of a continuous material.

(16) FIG. 14 shows a perspective view of a preferred mode of the internal skeletal member formed of a continuous material, such as flat spring steal.

(17) FIG. 15 shows a perspective view of another preferred mode of the internal skeletal member formed of a continuous material, such as round spring steal.

(18) FIG. 16 shows a side cross sectional view depicting another preferred mode of the elongated member and receiving cavity of the removably engageable stimulation component providing releasable locking means and air venting means.

(19) FIG. 16a shows a front view of the mode of the elongated member of FIG. 16.

(20) FIG. 16b shows a front view of the mode of the receiving cavity of the removably engageable stimulation component of FIG. 16.

(21) FIG. 17 shows the communication of the elongated member into the receiving cavity of the removably engageable stimulation component of FIG. 16.

(22) FIG. 17a shows the elongated member fully inserted within the receiving cavity of the removably engageable stimulation component of FIG. 16, showing an air cushion portion at the distal end of the cavity.

(23) FIG. 18 shows a kit providable to the user comprising the U-shaped member and a plurality of different shaped removably engageable stimulation components of different lengths, and different circumferences or shapes, to allow the partner of the wearer to choose one which provides optimum sexual stimulation during intercourse.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF PREFERRED EMBODIMENTS

(24) Referring now to the drawings of FIGS. 1-18 showing the sexual aid device 10 in various preferred modes, wherein similar parts are identified by like reference numerals which may be found in one or more of the drawings.

(25) As shown in figures the device 10, is configured to provide a self-retained biased engagement of the device 10 with a female wearer, as shown in FIG. 9, without the aid of belts or straps but instead using a clamping action provided by a force of the ends of the device toward each other.

(26) So employed, the device 10 has a generally U-shaped member 12 having a first or proximal end 14 which is adapted for a biased contact in an intra vaginal engagement with the wearer through a hooked portion 17 formed by a bend adjacent to the proximal end 14 of the U-shaped member 12. A projection 21 at the proximal end 14 provides increased force and friction with the G-spot area 19 of the female user as shown in FIG. 9, is preferred to increase sexual stimulation and provide a better mount of the proximal end 14 intra vaginally. The term “U-shaped” herein employed, is a general description of the shape of the member 12 and not intended in any fashion to limit the shape of the claimed device 10 which as those skilled in the art will realize could adjust to other shapes and serve the purpose intended.

(27) Adjacent to the distal end 16 of the U-shaped member 12, opposite the proximal end 14, is located an external surface portion 35 adapted in a shape to provide enhanced frictional compressed engagement against the lower abdomen and clitoral area 23 of the female wearing the device 10. This frictional pressured engagement is provided in all modes of the U-shaped member 12. However it is particularly enhanced when a skeletal structure 18 is engaged axially within the U-shaped member 12.

(28) The internal skeletal structure 18 may be formed of stiffer or higher durometer resilient plastic or silicon material, or by spring steel, fiberglass, or a material which is sufficiently resilient to provide an increased biasing proximal end 14 toward the distal end 16 once pulled apart from their static or original position as in FIGS. 3-4. The increase in distance between the proximal end 14 and distal end 16 occurs during engagement of the device in a wearer as in FIG. 9 where the body tissues serve to pull the two ends away, and the biasing force of the material forming the U-shaped member 12, or as enhanced by an included vibrator.

(29) As noted, this biasing force is a most important aspect of the device 10 to provide for the self-retention, and an adjustable mechanical communication for motion transfer between the U-shaped member 12 and an elongated member 24 projecting from, and engaged with a co-operatively engageable engagement point 22 adjacent to the distal end 16 of the U-shaped member 12.

(30) The elongated member 24 so engaged provides a user in a solo employment of the device 10, a handle of sorts to grip and impart their hand force to move the elongated member 24 and the engaged U-shaped member 12 in various different directions. This movement provides a means for increasing intra vaginal and external stimulation of the wearer's erogenous zones.

(31) When the device 10 is employed between two parties, the elongated member 24 extending from the user-engaged U-shaped member 12, may be employed to stimulate external erogenous areas of the partner and/or to penetrate the wearer's sexual partner and provide intra vaginal sexual stimulation. This stimulation is enhanced by movement of the wearer and partner and resulting force imparted to the U-shaped member 12 by the elongated member 24 during such moments in a joint use.

(32) When the elongated member 24 is engaged with the sexual partner, or used by the wearer's hand, the forces imparted to the U-shaped member 12 thereby provide direct physical contact and stimulation of the exterior of the proximal end 14 with the G-spot area adjacent to proximal end 14, and to the clitoral area 23 in contact with the distal end 16.

(33) The skeletal structure 18 if malleable, provides a means for adjusting the gap 13 or space between the distal end 16 and proximal end 14 in the neutral position, as formed and not engaged with the wearer. Since making the gap smaller increases the biasing force and making it larger decreases that force, the adjusting of the shape of the U-shaped member 12 using the skeletal structure 18 provides a means for increasing or decreasing the biasing force toward the two ends, and the pressured engagement upon the ledge 19 above the pubic symphysis adjacent to the G-spot 15, and on the abdomen and clitoral area 23. For a malleable or configurable skeletal structure 18 a simple soft metal rod might be employed such as aluminum which may be bent and thus bend the shape of the U-shaped member 12. In a mode of the device 10 with increased utility, one or preferably a plurality of malleable or adjustable points 20 are positioned along the coaxially positioned skeletal structure 18 as in FIGS. 5-6. This allows the user to adjust the position of the proximal end 14 to achieve maximum stability and the most pleasurable sensations against the G-spot 15. It also allows the user to adjust the distance between the proximal and distal ends to vary the bias toward each other and achieve a compressed engagement of the ends 14 and 16 against the abdomen and G-spot 15 to hold the device 10 self retained. It further allows the user a means for adjustable pressure over the clitoral area 21.

(34) To provide for concurrent external stimulation or penetration of a second user concurrently with the wearer, the engagement point 22 is provided to engage an elongated member 24 projecting from the U-shaped member 12. A conventional threaded or frictional engagement of a first end of the elongated member 24 with the U-shaped member 12 and or any skeletal component 18 may be employed. The elongated member 24 can be provided in a kit form, featuring a plurality of different elongated members 24 of different lengths, and different circumferences or shapes, to allow the partner of the wearer to choose one which provides optimum sexual stimulation during intercourse.

(35) Particularly preferred in all modes of the device 10 is a means for clitoral area 23 stimulation which currently is provided by one or a combination of ridges 25 positioned at a clitoral stimulation point adjacent to the distal end 16 along the U-shaped member 12.

(36) Further, in a particularly preferred mode of the device 10, at the proximal end 14 along the hooked portion 21 is a projection 21 forming a projection 21 and curved under-surface of the device 10 at the proximal end 14. This is most important in that it serves to provide a stable mount for the device 10 with the curved undersurface of the hooked portion 17 and with the projection 21 resting upon the ledge over the pubic bone 31. This serves to sandwich the G-spot 15 between the device 10 and the pubic bone 31 and to maintain the device 10 in a stable position on the user without belts or other exterior supports as the projection 21 is supported by the underlying pubic bone 31 stops excessive rotation of the device 10 and helps maintain the distal end 16 in a correct position outside the body of the wearer. This engagement means has been found to be especially stable without the need for belts or straps to hold the device 10 during use with two people, and to also provide constant contact of the area adjacent to the proximal end 14 with the G-spot 15 for intense and constant stimulation to the user simulating transfer of motion energy from the phallic shaped elongated member engaged with the sexual partner.

(37) In one preferred mode of the device 10 herein, optionally a means for vibration 39 at the proximal end 14 of the U-shaped member 12 may be provided to provide direct vibratory stimulation to the G-spot 15 in biased engagement with the proximal end 14. Such vibration would be in addition to the pressure and movement provided by the direct energy transfer from movement of the sexual partner upon the elongated member 24 projecting extension.

(38) Additionally, and particularly preferred, the elongated member 24 engaged adjacent to the distal end 16 of the device 10 may be a vibrator. So configured, the elongated member 24 would communicate vibration to the U-shaped member 12 and stimulating spots on the wearer, and also provide intense physical stimulation to a partner with whom the vibrating elongated member 24 would be in contact.

(39) While the most preferred modes of the device 10 show the elongated member 24 being engageable to the distal end 16 of the U-shaped member 12, the device 10 can be formed in a unitary structure in a once-piece mode as shown in FIGS. 10 and 11. This would be the simplest mode of the disclosed device 10 and would still provide the biased inward force of the two ends of the U-shaped member 12 to achieve the engagement with a user. However it may be formed of a single piece of silicone or with a skeletal component 18 running axially through the U-shaped member 12 and optionally through the axis of the elongated member 24. This mode while simple in construction still provides a huge leap in performance and function to users from conventional sexual aids offering no biased engagement with a user nor provision of an elongated member 24 to transfer motion forces to the wearer from the partner and vice versa.

(40) In yet another particularly preferred mode shown in FIG. 11, the elongated member is shown formed unitarily with the U-shaped member 12. In this mode the elongated member 24 extending from the distal end 16 thereof serves a plurality of purposes. Firstly, as described in previous modes, the elongated member 24 provides a user in a solo employment of the device 10, a handle to grip and impart their hand force to move the elongated member 24 and the engaged U-shaped member 12 in various different directions. Further, when the device 10 is employed between two parties, the elongated member 24 extending from the user-engaged U-shaped member 12, may be employed to stimulate external erogenous areas of the partner and/or to penetrate the wearer's sexual partner and provide intra vaginal sexual stimulation.

(41) In addition, and especially preferred with current modes of the disclosed device, the elongated member 24 serves as a means for removable engagement of a removably engageable stimulation component 42 at or adjacent to the distal end, the stimulation component preferably being an elongated member or a substantially phallic shaped member as shown. Thus, the engagement of the removably engageable stimulation component 42 at or adjacent to the distal end, provides enhanced means for sexual simulation of the wearers partner as it is generally formed larger than the elongated member 24. This engagement may be permanent or preferably removable to allow for interchanging various stimulation components 42 from a kit thereof.

(42) Means for cooperative engagement of the simulation component 42 to the elongated member 24, can be provided by forming the elongated member 24 preferably having a longitudinal projection 40, extending a distance along and away from the exterior surface of the elongated member 24 as shown. An aperture 44 (FIG. 12) communicates with the receiving cavity 46 of the stimulation component 24 which is dimensioned for receiving the elongated member 24, in a frictional or otherwise secured removable engagement thereto. This engagement may include a complimentary longitudinal cavity 48 which upon an engagement of the component 42 to the elongated member 24, preferably aligns with the projection 40 to form a registered engagement. This registered engagement may be preferred if the axis of the stimulation component 42, or its tip 59, is to be employed at a certain angle away from the axis of the elongated member 24, or another preferred registered orientation or angle of the stimulation component 42 relative to the elongated member 24 during penetration internally through an orifice of the wearer's partner.

(43) In addition, as can be seen in FIG. 11 and FIG. 11a, the U-shaped member 12 in the current mode includes a substantial girth increase, transitioning from a lower end 51 of the U-shaped member 12, to the proximal end 14 wherein a body portion 53 being wider relative the remaining U-shaped member 12. This girth transition includes an annular lip 33 communicating with the wider body portion 53, which when in the as worn mode, provides a means for self-retaining the device 10 in the intra-vaginal engagement with the user. It is preferred that the lip 33 is disposed in a location distanced from the proximal end 14 and lower end 51 such that in the as worn mode, the lip 33 will be naturally and ergonomically gripped by the intra-vaginal muscles providing the self-retaining means. If provided in kit form, various lengths and girths of the stimulation component 42 may be provided in the kit or available commercially from a kit provided to allow for the partner or user to choose the most appropriate stimulation component 42 for themself from the plurality available in the kit.

(44) FIG. 13 shows another preferred mode depicting the skeletal component 18 current shown formed of a continuous length of articulateable material, extending from the axis of an elongated member 24 to a position proximate to the proximal end 14, such as resilient flat (FIG. 14) or rounded (FIG. 15) spring steal or other suitable material. By providing a singular piece of material in a continuous length for the skeletal component 18, it is intended that the device 10 can be manufactured with less cost due to the singular skeletal member 18 and the skeletal member 18 will communicate any movement imparted to the elongated member 24 from a hand contact by the user or their partner, or a movement during an internal engagement with the partner, in a concurrent reciprocal responsive movement of the U shaped member 12 and or the end 14.

(45) However, it is additionally intended that the material be chosen to maintain a suitable amount of subsequent bendability and malleability in subsequent use sessions, to the U shaped member 12, insofar as to continue to provide the user with means for user-configuring of the shape of the U-shaped member and means for adjusting the width of separation of the proximal 14 and distal 16 ends.

(46) FIG. 16-17a show views of additional particularly preferred modes of the elongated member 24 and receiving cavity 46 of the stimulation component 42. In the figures, the distal end of the elongated member includes a locking ridge 41, generally being wider than the elongated member's 24 shaft, and at least one flat surface 43. Means for releasably locking the elongated member 24 to the stimulation component 42 is provided by forming the receiving cavity 46 of the stimulation component 42 with a complimentary recess 47 shaped and formed to engage the locking ridge when fully inserted in to the cavity 46 as shown in FIG. 17a. Those skilled in the art will envision that the locking force provided by the ridge 41 and recess 47 will be determined by the flexibility of the material of the stimulation component. However it is preferred that the force provided is sufficient to resist disengagement during employment of the device 10, however can still be disengaged by the user when desired simply by applying opposing pulling forces on the device 10 and stimulation component 42.

(47) It is noted that those skilled in the art may envision various other means for releasably locking the stimulation component 42 with the elongated member 24, however without departing from the scope and intent of the invention, are anticipated. As such the current depiction is provided merely for demonstrative purposes of one preferred mode, and should not be considered limiting.

(48) It is noted that ease of insertion of the elongated member 24 into the cavity 46 can be enhanced by venting back pressure air which may build up in the cavity as the elongated member 24 is advanced inward. As such, means for venting or otherwise evacuating air from the receiving cavity 46 of the stimulation component 42 during the insertion of the elongated member 24 is additionally provided. The cavity 46 includes an air vent channel 45 extending from the open aperture 44 a distance into the cavity 46. During insertion of the elongated member 24, the flat surface 43 aligns with the channel 45 however without obstructing the channel 45, such that back pressure air built up within the cavity 46 can be vented from the cavity 46 through the channel 45 as the elongated member 24 is communicated therein as shown in FIG. 17. As such, the user can easily engage and disengage the stimulation component 42 without the need for excessive force or with the use of lubricants.

(49) Further, as clearly shown in FIG. 17a, the depth of the cavity 46 can be formed slightly or moderately longer than the length of the elongated member 24. Thus, in the fully inserted position as shown, an air cushion portion 49 is provided at the distal end of the cavity 46. The air cushion portion 49 has shown to provide a shock absorbing air cushion means between the elongated member 24 and stimulation component 42 to dampen an inadvertent hard thrust by the wearer to their partner.

(50) FIG. 18 shows a kit 50 which is providable to the user comprising the U-shaped member 12 and a kit having a plurality of different shaped removably engageable stimulation components 42 of different lengths, and different circumferences or shapes, to allow the user or their partner to choose any one from the kit which provides optimum sexual stimulation during intercourse and engage it to the U-shaped member. Of course it is noted that the geometries and quantity of the stimulation components 42 provided in the kit 50 can be varied as deemed suitable by the designer, and should not be considered limited by the current depiction. It is additionally noted and anticipated that in other modes the kit 50 may be providable without the U-shaped member 50, wherein the user purchases the U-shaped member 50 separately, and can then purchase any one member of or a complete desirable kit 50 comprising a plurality of different stimulation components 42 of different lengths, exterior configurations, circumferences and shapes.

(51) While all of the fundamental characteristics and features of the sexual aid system herein have been shown and described, with reference to particular embodiments thereof, a latitude of modification, various changes and substitutions are intended in the foregoing disclosure and it will be apparent that in some instances, some features of the invention may be employed without a corresponding use of other features without departing from the scope of the invention as set forth. It should also be understood that various substitutions, modifications, and variations may be made by those skilled in the art without departing from the spirit or scope of the invention. Consequently, all such modifications and variations and substitutions are included within the scope of the invention as defined by the following claims.